The Lost Self and the Disappearance of Desire

The Lost Self and the Disappearance of Desire

The Lost Self and the Disappearance of DesireTamsin Acheson
Published on: 05/01/2026

When desire fades in midlife, it’s rarely about sex or love. This article explores how identity loss shows up erotically, and why desire returns when the self does.

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The Midlife Stall: Why Nothing Feels Exciting Anymore

The Midlife Stall: Why Nothing Feels Exciting Anymore

The Midlife Stall: Why Nothing Feels Exciting AnymoreTamsin Acheson
Published on: 24/11/2025

Midlife can feel flat even when life looks fine. This piece explores why aliveness fades and how to reignite meaning, desire and internal momentum.

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Micro-Trust: How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Betrayal

Micro-Trust: How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Betrayal

Micro-Trust: How to Rebuild Self-Trust After BetrayalTamsin Acheson
Published on: 20/10/2025

After betrayal, the fix isn’t trusting others faster, it’s rebuilding trust in yourself. Micro-promises and sovereignty restore calm authority.

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What If Midlife Means You’re Done Doing as You’re Told?

What If Midlife Means You’re Done Doing as You’re Told?

What If Midlife Means You’re Done Doing as You’re Told?Tamsin Acheson
Published on: 15/09/2025

Midlife clarity comes when “fine” is no longer enough. Discover why rejecting fine is your quietest, bravest midlife transformation.

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